Hi Ron,
Welcome to the forum.
What is the beer temp out of the tap? Pour a glass of beer, wait about a minute, then chug. Pour again and stick in a thermometer.
Next get a measuring cup and see how much beer pours in 15 seconds. You should be about 32 oz.
Once we get those two figures we should be able to figure the restriction issue out. Also, what beer are you pouring and how many feet above sea level is your place?
When you unhook a keg, you will get a little air bubble in the line regardless of your system. Maybe in line shutoffs would work, right above the coupler.
There are faucet locks that MM sells, I've never used them, but they may be an answer.
Cheers,
Steve