thanks for the help, I think it is my coupler then, i bought this low profile one
http://www.micromatic.com/draft-keg-...-FT44T-PR.html It does leak co2 and beer when the coupler is off the keg, when i twist the coupler it just changes how much it leaks but it still leaks. Im guessing thats my problem. They sent me an exploded view of the couplers insides heres a pic of that, sorry its sideways
Yahoo! Photos - Picture But # 7 i the pic is the check valve inside of where the airline looks up, im guessing that is what is bad. Ill send it back and get a new one.